My First Trip with Mom to her Radiation...

I told my Dad that I would like to help take mom to Radiation sometimes, as she needs to go 5 days a week for 7 weeks. On Monday, Dad picked me up and decided to still go, because he wanted to show me the way there. Well, this was an interesting experience to say the least. Everyone at the Huntsman Cancer Center is so nice. They call you by your first name and their goal there is to know everyone. One Nurse practitioner (a man) always calls mom happy and beautiful, because mom is always smiling and acts like this is nothing that she is going through. I thought that everyone would be interested in seeing what she has to do on a daily basis....When you arrive you check in and you have to wait. Sometimes they wait for a long time and other times, they take you right in. I brought Abbi with me, so she can get to know her grandma. We loaded her up with snacks, crayons, and movies on the laptop...

Before mom actually started her Radiation, they molded this mask on her face to cover the rest of her head for the Radiation. This is an interesting process. So...everyday when she comes, they place this waffle type mask on her face, which is kind of tight. The machine spins around her head with these red laser type lights pointing directly to the tumor. Her body spins around too. I asked the nurse if people get cholosterphobia and he said all of the time, but mom said that she doesn't, which is good! This process made me truly realize how serious this is and it made me appreciate all of the other people that I know who have had to go through this. Mom makes it look like a piece of cake, however, there were terribly sick people coming in and out and your heart truly felt sad. My Dad is a trooper and wants to be by my mom's side at every waking second. I can't believe how strong they both are! We love you mom and Dad....I will look forward to this process every monday and look forward to the opportunity to finally take care of her after all of the years that she took care of me!

This is us leaving after her treatment, she's still smiling...

Abbi was so good that I bribed her with a stuffed animal from the gift shop.

Mom and Dad's living Arrangements...

Neil has been so nice to give up his brand new house to accomodate mom and dad. He gave up his Master Bedroom and made it really comfortable for Mom. He uses the guest room to sleep. He also put another cable jack in the living room, so that she can leave her TV in the bedroom and go to the living room to have a change of scenery. I think Neil enjoys having them around, because it keeps him company.

Our Family Motto is HOPE...Heavens Opportunities Promises Exaltaion. Shalyses sister gave this picture to my parents. They have it hung in their room.

My Mom and Dad...

I know that it's been a very long time since I posted an updated blog. Our life has been one crazy mess. We have uprooted our whole backyard, made a walkout basement, cut a hole in our house in the basement to add french doors, built a deck, added rock, waterfall, firepit and now it's only just begun....they start our new garage next week. We are so tired of the construction mess, however, after it is all done we will be glad we did it. Now....enough excuses of why my blog isn't updated...on with the new posts....

We have really enjoyed mom and dad living here in Utah. It's so fun that they just pop in on you and visit with us and the kids. A couple weeks ago Aunt Anne, Carlee and Spencer, mom and Marianne went to Thanksgiving Point to walk around the gardens. I met them there for lunch. Mom is doing great! I thought that her Radiation and Chemo would make her so sick and so tired, but she is always going. Their social life is becoming rather sickening for only living here a few weeks, they have been invited over to so many people's homes for dinner. They went to their Mission Presidents home, they are invited to some friends from their new wards home this weekend. Some people that used to live in Grants Pass have brought them dinner and Bob and Eddie Weske are coming to Neil's house to cook for them. They want to do that once a week for them. Dad attended the University of Utah vs. Utah State game with Bob Weske. Anyway, here are the latest photo's of mom and dad...